Sweetness

I think we all as parents wish that our children wouldn't grow up so fast. We have to buy shoes way too often because what used to be tiny feet are now stinky big feet. We go through challenges and battles about what is appropriate at this age regarding movies, music, tv shows. We have discussions about setting limits and we try to convince our 4 going on 13 year old about why we make the decisions we make. I just want the girls to stay young, sweet, and naive. NAIVE.
Lately Natalya is just been growing way beyond her years. I am really not surpised because it's in her being. She is incredibly bright and very aware, and, well, I am just dumbfounded sometimes listening to her talk. Today she came home and started her homework as usual. As I get into the coming home chaos, she turns to me and says, "Momma, some kids at school say that 'ass' is a bad word." Off course, I tilt my head and look at her. Then I say, "Well, what do you think it means?" And she says, "Well, it's a part of 'class' and 'glass'." As my heart swells, I go to her and hug her and kiss her forhead and say, "I am so glad that it took you this long to have to hear this." I really would have wanted it to be longer but considering that other kids already knew, I'd say she did pretty well. I go on to tell her the various meanings and say that it's not appropriate in most situations. She is good with that.
It keeps running through my head and I wait for the next one to come up. I know, she would have learned it at some point but I sorta feel like those kids have taken away a part of her innocence. I can not protect her 100% of the time but I hope she always thinks of me during times like these. My baby, she's just growing up.
OK, in other sweetness fronts... I got to see my sweet friend Kristin today. She is a light and hugs with all her heart. I felt it today. Kristin is having her third baby and is one rockin' momma.
Kristin and her hub make beautiful children. Can't wait to meet number 3.